So, the fella and I were having dinner the other night as we do.
He surveyed his meal (as he does) and poked at the potato in particular.
"I've gotta say," he said, "I'm not really a fan of putting onion in the mashed potato."
"I didn't," I replied.
His head came up in surprise and he said, "Oh, so it's just lumpy?"
Huge laughter aaaand a big sigh from me at the same time...